Not every family has grandparents living nearby, and that can be tough. However, it doesn’t mean connections are any less meaningful. 

Distance doesn’t have to mean disconnection. While being physically present helps, strong bonds between grandparents and grandchildren can still be formed through intentional effort. Even when they live far away, grandparents can play a valuable role in family life, especially in the early years. They bring experience, perspective and support that can make a big difference. 

For parents, staying connected with grandparents can offer emotional support, a listening ear and a sense of continuity. In these cases, a bit of screen time – usually discouraged in early childhood development – can be a wonderful exception. Regular video calls and being involved in milestones – even virtually – helps maintain strong bonds.

While their approach may differ from today’s parenting, many grandparents are open to learning what the norms are and being a part of the experience. When they visit, joining in on activities like a GymbaROO class can give them a chance to connect with their grandchild and see firsthand what today’s early learning looks like. It’s a way to bridge generations and strengthen relationships.

Long-Distance Activity Ideas

How can you make the most of these virtual connections? Here are some practical and fun ways to make remote interactions meaningful for grandparents and grandchildren:

• Morning Tea Together: Schedule a video call during the child’s morning tea. Sharing food, conversation and daily stories can help maintain a sense of presence.
• Book Reading: Choose a book that both the child and grandparent own. The grandparent reads aloud while the parent and child follow along and turn the pages.
• Music Sessions: Gather some instruments (pots, wooden spoons or containers) and play along to music together. Older children might even teach grandparents dances from their GymbaROO-KindyROO classes!
• Puppet Shows and Rhymes: Use puppets or finger games for interactive play. Simple rhymes are easy and engaging, even over video.
• Memory Games: Play “What’s Missing?” with a tray of objects. Show the tray, cover it, remove one item, and see if the child can guess what’s gone. Older children can take on the role of the ‘item remover’ for their grandparents.

These shared activities create memories and help build a meaningful bond, even across long distances. What matters most is time and love – two gifts grandparents are uniquely positioned to give.